I forgot to add the following lines to the Verse 13.23 in this post - http://vishnudut1926.blogspot.ru/2014/07/a-gopi-did-not-tie-up-her-hair-with.html
Yes, if the natural aversion to Kali-Yuga people (not only Kali-Yuga, but all the people, relatives and etc.) does not arise, it means, that your sadhana is futile.
My following experience is added:
"The Verse 13.23 is a classic mental state of a Gopi. I have started to experience it in childhood.
Once you are with Krishna, Shreemati Radharani-Devi or Sakhis, you will have natural inclination ONLY for Their Company and the others (common people, relatives and etc.) will cause disgust and aversion in your soul."